stone skipping (part 5)

We are sisters from another mother. Sometimes, we are blessed to run into soulmates in our lives where we just instantly connect, and they don't always have to be romantic. As another sister soulmate said..."when there is no ego and you just love unconditionally, you just know those are friendships for life".

Songkran with many blessings

For a time, she was my work wife. We looked out for each other (and those that were part of our posse), but also did silly things like sneak around and switch phones when we were convinced that my phone was tapped by the CEO. She was married at a young age and as with many Vietnamese women, had the bad luck of marrying a lazy, abusive Vietnamese man. However, she had such inner strength. She went after her dreams even if it meant being a single mother and turning a blind eye to traditions. When we met, we were both lost in our own way personally.

In many ways, we were similar but in some, we were different. Yet, with unconditional love, we also didn't judge each other for our decisions and respectfully accepted each other's views, especially when we were challenging each other.

I was pleasantly surprised when I got a heartfelt card by "snail mail" for my birthday in 2014, especially in the age of social media and texting when it becomes a simple exercise to wish someone birthday wishes.

"Time flies, it has been more than a year since you left Vietnam but I still remember the time that you were around. I enjoyed the time with you a lot, walking back home at night with you. We, two women kept walking and laughing. Sometimes, I had to follow you to the corner of the street closed by your apartment just to have more time to talk to you. 😮

You are one of the amazing persons that had come to my life. I am greatful that I've known you. You are inspiring me to a better meaning of life, a breakthrough to the success of my CPA exams and changed the lens that I'm looking to this world.

I miss the time with you and I MISS YOU.

On the occasion of your birthday this year, I would like to say thank you for being with me, teaching me different things during your time in Vietnam and inspiring me. I wish your time in Vietnam would be longer even I know my wishes and your wishes may be very different. 😊

I wish you a very very happy birthday and many many more happy birthdays!" [sic]

I used to be disappointed on Valentine's Day (hallmark holiday), despite the brave face we all (I) try to put on that it is just another day, when I did not have someone to celebrate it with (even when I was formally with someone). However, on this day, I am grateful for the soul sisters (and brothers) that I have in my life that remind me that I am loved after all. She also recently had her soulmate return in her life, and will have a wonderful reason to celebrate this day and infinite days ahead. Another beautiful soul who deserves all the love in the world. I am so proud of her for following her dreams and her much deserved accomplishments, including a soon-to-be partner of the firm. She also reminds me that it is never too late to be thankful and let others know that they are appreciated.

I miss my sissie!