rest in peace

Many years ago, I read a series of books that have changed my perspective in life (see to err is human, to forgive, divine) - actually, I would say it validated rather than changed as for some reason, I was already on that trajectory. One of the things in the book was that people are reading the book as they are ready for it - something akin to things happening for a reason. Having been raised Baptist, there was a lot of push of hell and damnation, which was one of the reasons why I turned away from organized religion (more complex than can be articulated in a blog). The series of books somehow amalgamated many concepts from various organized religions throughout the world and articulated them in such a way that there were no contradictions, and in its own way, made sense.

One of the concepts though is that there is no such thing as hell. Life on earth is the equivalent of the 'hell' as we are prone to use the term, but it's really a matter of life experiences that we choose to experience and continuous rebirths until we achieve some higher learning/experiences -- similar to the various heavens noted in Buddhism (see the road less traveled). Since then, my fear of dying has lessened and focus more on my experiences and living in the moment.

Ben Breedlove, in his young age, has impacted many through his witty relationship advice posts on YouTube through a couple of pseudonyms. But two simple posts with a different pseudonym that he created just for the occasion have touched millions. Many have interpreted his message differently, based on where they are in their lives. Although his life was snuffed out on Christmas, his legacy in itself is a Christmas miracle, as his family were able to view the YouTube posts, which he had uploaded a week before, the day after his death and find comfort. My take -- how wonderful would it be to have that constant smile and peace. His face glows with that smile as he covers that part as well. My hat is off to him for finally finding bliss.